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Welcome!  I pray the words I write will encourage reflection within and deeper study of the Word of God, which is able to build us up, equipping us to be victorious as we journey through this earthly life.
 May we all earnestly seek the things above, not the things of this world. 

Keep seeking the things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on the things that are on earth. Colossians 3: 1-2

The perfect gift

12/7/2013

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Much time, thought and energy goes into the perfect gift to give this time of year.  The holiday season we call it.  I looked up the definition of the word holiday,  and this is what I found:

~a day of festivity or recreation when no work is done.

Hmm... I think to myself, a day when no work is done.  So a holiday season would therefore be a season when no work is done.  Uh yeah, right!  Most of us women go into hyper overdrive during the 'holiday' season.  Stress descends upon us like an unwanted fog as we muddle our way through the 'holiday' season trimming the tree, the house, the dog, the car, whatever we can find to trim.  Writing the cards, crafting or hunting for those perfect gifts, tossing our spare change into those Salvation Army tins, and then rushing home to bake those cookies and pies.   Ahhh, relaxation, right?  Mmm, not so much.  Maybe, just maybe, we need to rethink this American tradition of ours, this holiday season in which we work ourselves into a frenzy.  Maybe, we Christians need to purposefully not conform ourselves to the mold of the 'holiday' season, and instead think outside the "traditional Christmas gift" box.  
 
Ponder this question: What is the greatest gift, the most perfect gift you want?  I will tell you mine.  

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It is time I want.  Uncluttered, unplugged, unstressed, unabsorbed, unadulterated by this world, TIME.
Quiet time, slow time, peaceful time.  Time with those I love, time for those I love, not doing, just being.  Now that is my definition of a holiday!  

And I wonder if perhaps it isn't THE gift we should give to others?  What would my husband, friend, sister, father, mother, child want most, that I can give?  A thing?  A trinket? A toy?  When I look back on my childhood, I really don't remember the presents opened.  I remember moments;  Moments spent with people who loved me, and how I felt when in their presence. Those moments seem suspended-forever frozen in time- within my memories.  They are precious, and can be recalled to comfort as needed.    

That is what I want to give.  My sweet grandchildren, my children, my friends, my extended family and church family and that wonderful man God gave me to journey through life with;  I want to give of myself to them,  my time, my energy, my words, those feelings of warmth I have for them. And I want those feelings, those memories  to be with them, long after I am gone.

But I have a confession to make.  Sometimes, it is easier for me to give things and spend money rather than give my time.  I am selfish with my time.  I have agenda's and lists of things to do, practically every day.  I have a morbid sense of pleasure from crossing off items on lists.  I don't usually put "Share time" on my list.  Oh, I have the 'scheduled' time on the agendas;  time with a struggling young Christian, Bible studies,  work projects for others.   The 'scheduled' time is easy, it is the  unexpected moments of need that arise, when someone really needs to talk or needs my time- on their timetable.  I struggle with this type of sharing time. It is this that I have asked God repeatedly over the years to help me with.  And He is gracious to guide me and help me in this request.  It is as if I feel Him putting His hands on my shoulders, squaring me up, getting me to focus -not on myself-, and then quieting my spirit, so I can give freely of myself and my time to others.  I have learned to abandon my agenda, and take on His.  Or rather I should say, I am learning.  As a result, my house is not as tidy as it once was, and projects get left undone.  And I am perfectly OK with that. 

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In this gift giving season we are in, I encourage you to give the gift of sharing your time.   Go visit an elderly person, a shut in.  And if you have children, please take them.  What a precious gift children are to them!  When you see a long lost friend as you are out and about, and they want to talk and talk and talk, just listen.  Give them your time.  When your children, or siblings or parents or friends or neighbors need your attention 'at the most inopportune time' for you, push your agenda aside, and just BE with them.  I can promise you things will NOT get done, as you wanted on your time table.  And I can promise you, you'll survive that.  You will learn that it will be OK.  Actually more than OK,  you will be blessed for it.  I have searched and searched and I haven't found a scripture that says we will be blessed for having a clean house, or cooking amazing food, or making the most unique things, but I have found these verses.

Acts 20: 35    "In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ” 

                                               and then there is this wonderful verse

Luke 6: 38   Give, and it will be given to you, good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over,  they will pour into your lap.  For by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you in return. 

Giving or sharing our time may be hard.  But it is the gifts given out of sacrifice , that tend to mean the most to others, that will live on in memory and are certainly most pleasing to our Lord and Savior.  After all,  the greatest most perfect gift ever given was most certainly hard for Him, the ultimate sacrifice, giving His life, shedding His blood for us to be forgiven and to live eternally with Him.  


So I challenge you to think 'outside the traditional Christmas' box  this season, and share yourself.  I promise you that gift won't be returned!  Except in blessings to you. 







5 Comments
Rosemary Thompson
12/6/2013 11:23:50 am

Robin,
This is a wonderful reminder of how important it is to give of our time even at this busiest time of the year.

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Lindsay Mast link
12/7/2013 06:35:52 am

Once again, we are on the same page synth same time, friend! I hope we both enjoy simple, meaningful gifts of time and live this month.

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Stacey
12/13/2013 12:27:30 am

Dear Robin, you are absolutely right. Time is one of those things that is the hardest to part with. Thank you for your example and your encouragement. Love you! Hugs!!!!

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Robin
12/13/2013 01:51:07 am

Rosemary, we had the perfect examples of women who gave completely of themselves didn't we? Jo, Mary and Kathleen were the most amazing examples of giving. They are what I strive to be like.

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Robin
12/13/2013 01:52:20 am

Such kind words Stacy. I LOVE having you in my life. Hugs right back atcha!

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